This is messed up

But our kids will just have to overcome it

📌 Here’s what you’ll learn in today’s issue:

  • The AI Dilemma: It’s helping your child, and hurting them at the same time

  • Why critical thinking is becoming the most valuable skill in the world (and the hardest to develop)

  • A 5-step plan to help your kid stop and think — even when AI gives them all the answers

  • The teen who made $1 million with ChatGPT… and what your child can learn from him

🧠 The Big Idea: AI Might Be KILLING Critical Thinking (Just When Our Kids Need It Most)

AI is making life easier than ever, but it’s also making it way too easy to stop thinking.

And that’s dangerous.

Because in the age of AI, the most important skill your child can have… is the one AI might be taking away.

It’s called critical thinking.

And if they lose it now, they may never get it back.

Why? 

Because you don’t get a second chance at brain development. 

AI is fast, smart, and helpful. It can write your kid’s paper, solve their homework, answer any question, and even give them advice.

But when they lean on it too much, they lose something big:

The ability to stop, think, question, and make decisions for themselves.

In fact, a recent MIT study found that when people rely on AI to answer questions, their brains show less activity in areas linked to memory, reasoning, and self-control. 

The very skills critical thinking depends on.

So what is critical thinking?

  • It’s thinking before reacting. Instead of just believing what they hear or read, your child learns to pause and ask: “Is this really true?”

  • It’s asking better questions. Not just “What’s the answer?” but “How do we know? What else matters here?”

  • It’s spotting what’s missing. Like when a headline leaves out the full story or a chatbot gives a half-right answer.

  • It’s looking at things from more than one angle. So they don’t fall for lies, hype, or pressure.

Why does this matter now?

  • Because AI is everywhere. And most of what it spits out sounds right, even when it’s totally wrong.

  • Because kids are overloaded. Videos, messages, chatbots, advice — all the time. If they can’t sort fact from fiction, they’ll get lost.

  • Because bad actors are out there. AI can be used to lie, scam, or trick people. Your kid needs to see through it.

  • Because skipping the hard parts is addicting. When a tool does your thinking for you, it’s easy to stop trying. But trying is where real growth happens.

And here’s the part most parents miss:

Critical thinking isn’t just about school. It’s the foundation for almost everything that matters in real life.

It’s how your child prepares for a job interview — by thinking through what they want, how to present themselves, and how to spot red flags.

It’s how they decide who to trust, what to share online, and when to say no.

It’s how they build a business, solve a tough relationship problem, or choose between two paths when both feel uncertain.

It’s how they avoid being manipulated, by people or by machines.

In the future, the highest-paid, most respected people won’t be the ones who use AI the most.

They’ll be the ones who know when not to use it, because their thinking is sharper than the output.

They’ll be the ones who know how to ask the right questions, evaluate what comes back, and make confident decisions when the answers aren’t easy.

That’s the skill your child needs.

And you can help them build it.

Starting NOW.

You don’t need a textbook or a lecture to teach this.

You just need a few simple ways to help your child pause, reflect, and think things through. 

Which is exactly what our Action Plan below helps you do.

💬  Future Proof Parent Action Plan

Train Your Kid to Think Like a Problem-Solver

1. Don’t just accept answers — test them
Ask your kid to treat AI like an assistant, not a boss. When they get an answer, have them double-check it or ask, “Is this really true?” That’s how inventors think.

2. Make small decisions like they’re big ones
Let them choose where to go this weekend or what to spend $20 on — but tell them to think it through first. What are the trade-offs? What might go wrong? That’s how rocket launches get planned.

3. Question the defaults
If AI says something weird, help your kid ask: “Why is it saying that?” Show them how to poke holes in bad answers — that’s how better systems get built.

4. Practice first-principles thinking
Break things down. If your kid says, “This is boring,” ask, “Why?” Then, “Why is that boring?” Keep going. It teaches them to think deeper — just like engineers do.

5. Show your mental process out loud
When you make a decision, narrate it like a blueprint: “I thought A, but then B happened, so I went with C.” It teaches them how smart people think under pressure.

🐝 What’s Buzzing for Mom & Dad Today

Big shifts are happening fast: from AI stepping into the co-parenting role to real concerns about how it's shaping our kids' creativity. Here’s what Future Proof Parents are digging into right now:

🧩 45 Brain Teasers That Actually Make Kids Think
These aren’t your average riddles — they’ll stretch your child’s logic, attention, and reasoning skills in all the right ways.
👉 Check them out »

📅 How AI Keeps This Parent Organized
From planning meals to managing chores, this busy mom shares the AI tools that help her stay sane. Worth a look if your calendar’s already out of control.
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💰 This Teen Made $1M with ChatGPT
Yes, really. Watch how one young man used AI to build a business — and what your kid can learn from it.
👉 Watch the video »

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